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I am Heather Stopher and this is my wonderful and much loved horse Goldie, or ‘Good as Gold’ to give him his full name.

I started with horses when I was 7 and went on until I was 17 before being forcibly ejected from the family nest into a hard and cruel world to earn a living.  My sister, brother and I were lucky enough to have some really good show ponies when we were young which we produced from home and did quite well with them.


Savina and Goldie


Sister Karen on ‘Prince Apollo’ and me on ‘Weston Fascination’ at home in Barton, Bedfordshire c.1966.

So began 33 years of globetrotting.  I used to dream of hacking in the English countryside with the wind in my hair and it was this dream which drove me on.  I decided at 20 that I would retire at 50 and return to horses.  I set about climbing to the top of everything I did.  I needed money, lots of it and I am afraid that I pursued this course relentlessly without a backward glance throughout my working life.

At varying times I have owned sports cars, a part-share of a glider, and a powered aircraft.  These were expensive enough to run, but little prepared me for the horrific expense of running a horse!

On April 8th 2000 I duly retired (well, I did do a bit of consultancy work for a couple of years after that) and bought ‘Finnigan’ a six year old 16.3hh liver chestnut Irish hunter for a considerable amount of money.  Several things hit me at the same time, the first being that I hadn’t got the faintest idea about anything despite the years of research that I had done beforehand.  Secondly, all the experience of my childhood counted for absolutely nothing and I had a hard time believing that I could not just get on this horse (bareback if I had wanted to) and gallop it around the countryside like I used to do.  The horse frightened the living daylights out of me and broke two fingers to boot. I  was in way, way out of my depths.

I sent him off to Polly Hodges, who was one of the Junior British Dressage Team riders, to be schooled then to Nick Turner’s yard to be jumped, loaded and prepared for sale to give him the best chance of going to a good home.  I regret to say that I was pleased to see him go.  I look back on that episode now and feel dreadful about it.  I failed that horse and Lord knows where he is now.

My next venture was ‘Chance’ a 14 year old 16hh chestnut ID/TB mare whose Sire was the ‘King of Diamonds’.  She had a hunting injury and was sent to me on loan.  I got on so well with this horse and loved her to bits, unfortunately 10 months after she arrived we were out hacking one day and she stumbled as we were cantering up a hill.  She nearly went down but pulled up hopping lame.  Her sesamoid bones had finally crumbled and there was nothing to hold the deep flexor tendon in place.  She was put down at Oak Farm a few hours later and I was devastated.

Next was ‘Nemo’a 16hh dark bay 20 year old branded Danish Warmblood Intermediate Dressage horse with 4 white socks.  Nemo was fantastic and we roamed a good deal of Bedfordshire until he developed an abscess on his pedal bone.  It was inoperable and would render him lame for the rest of his life.  So I went about looking for yet another new horse to ride.

I had placed an advertisement in Horse & Hound in the ‘Horses Wanted’ section asking for a m/w 100% bombproof hack for a geriatric rider that might do the odd hunter class at a local show.  In amongst the million or so replies to my ad., the sellers of Goldie contacted me.  From what they told me I was not very interested as there was a price tag of £3.5k, but there were several horses in the Bucks area that I was interested in so decided to include a visit to the dressage yard as well.

To cut a long story short, I saw this enormous, ginger and white, grossly fat, clumping horse, with the biggest backside in history, squashed into a 12' x12' stable, with his ears back and plopping his bottom lip in a pathetic sort of way.  He was surrounded by dainty thoroughbred types which emphasised his hugeness.  I can honestly say that my heart beat faster and I loved him the moment I saw him.

I had him test ridden by my niece and my sister-in-law (who was very scathing about his conformation, upright shoulder and his choppy trot) then 5 stage vetted by Baskervilles.  He was found to be one fifth lame on flexion on one hind leg.  The attending vet said that, in his opinion, this should not affect him for what I wanted to do with him.  So, after a spot of renegotiation, I loaded a £2000 Goldie into my horsebox on my Birthday, 8th April, 2003 and drove him back to Oak Farm.

A week after Goldie came home, my niece, Savina, decided she wanted to jump him so we entered him into a local show.  He flew round and came away with firsts in working hunter, ridden hunter, the hunter championship and she also won a jumping competition.  This set the trend for the summer of showing and jumping, culminating in the epitome for me, a first against the 2002 Wembley winner in the working hunter class at Ashwell.  I began to wonder what his background was.


Savina and Goldie at Ashwell

At this stage I knew nothing about his background and nothing about his previous owner’s accident.  She told me it was an ‘old injury’ when I enquired as to why she was swaddled in bandages from head to foot.  She was also reluctant to give me information about his previous owners, so when it was apparent he could jump I contacted the BSJA who came up with a match and I was able to contact a very relieved Louise and thus trace his background.

Goldie is a 12 y/o 16.11/2 hh. KWPN x ID/TB.  His dad was the famous Grade A showjumper ‘It’s the Business’ and his mum (supposedly) a Grade B showjumper by the name of ‘Libby’.  Goldie’s Mum’s real name is still unknown.  Despite all efforts, I am still not further forward in finding out what her real name is despite repeated requests to his breeders.  I can tell you though that she is a 17.1hh dark bay elegant mare with a white snip on her nose.  She seemed to be a nice kind horse with a soft eye when I met her.

Goldie was bred at the High Offley Stud in Staffordshire, and the story goes from his previous owners that 'It’s the Business’ escaped from Geoff Glazzard’s farm next door and covered several High Offley’s working mares one night.  High Offley did not deny it when I asked them.  Goldie’s Sire can be seen on highoffleystud.co.uk. where he is still covering their mares, so they must have been pleased with the results!

Goldie’s resemblance to his dad is nothing short of remarkable.  In common with his Sire, whom I have been to see, Goldie had a wonderful tractable temperament until such time as the blood is roused and then all hell is let loose in one go.  He is a horse of very definite contrasts.

Goldie was broken at 3 and kept entire until he was 5 by High Offley Stud who showjumped him and, when he did not progress beyond Grade C, they gelded him and started to show him in Working Hunter Classes.  He excelled in this sphere and won pretty well everything in the Borders area.  When I visited High Offley Stud earlier this year, I was shown into the office where framed pictures of Goldie still adorn the walls.  It was a bizarre sensation seeing my own horse as a youngster decorating someone else’s premises.

Louise Garbett from Shropshire saw him competing and wanted him for her daughter Lindsay.  So Louise duly bought him.  Goldie was showjumped, hunted and shown for 4 years winning many County standard classes and even the Supreme Championship at Birchinley Manor in Scotland, named the ‘Wembley of the North’.  His former owners are having a copy of this win on DVD made for me.  (I am SO excited!).

Lindsay went off to University and Louise had to sell Gold.  He was sold to a woman in Buckinghamshire who had just lost her CB/TB.  Within a very short space of time she had fallen off him and cracked her ribs and broken her arm and shoulder.  She never rode him again.  Gold was sent to a dressage yard to be sold which is where I found him.

Until October 2003, Gold and I hacked all over the Bedfordshire countryside together in complete harmony.  Something happened to us in the second week of that month and we got to the stage when he was mostly disinclined to stop from a canter/gallop when requested to do so.  This state of affairs was not helped by a stupid girl from our yard galloping past me when I had specifically asked her not to do so.  Once more we arrived in the yard a little quicker than anticipated.  I began to get anxious and look for excuses not to ride him.

Enter Heather (Hev) Seems.  Hev was teaching someone at Oak Farm and out of curiosity I began to watch.  Hev then started me and very quickly afterwards disappeared to Devon.  From Hev, I found the Parelli system.  Within weeks, and before I had even got my Level 1 pack, I then found this Naturally Horses group and was welcomed and encouraged into the group by Liz.  It seemed that everything happened at once leading me to believe that my journey with natural horsemanship had already been mapped out for me and was clearly meant to be.


Goldie and me at Naturally Horses Summer Camp, 2005

The rest, as they say, is history….

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